Meet Kevin
Human Design Leadership Coach
Hi, I'm Kevin A. Davidson, Human Design Leadership Coach.
I empower midlife men to define their masculinity using Human Design for authentic living.
Having worked in National Accounts for over 25 years, servicing senior executive clients, delivering high-ticket sales and managing eight-figure revenue portfolios, representing 20% of turnover, I know how it feels to live life for the approval of others.
I realised my approval-seeking was founded as a product of having to adapt, survive, and thrive particularly as a person of colour in frequently hostile and culturally biased environments.
Approval was my safety blanket. It provided protection and reassurance but at the cost of constantly teetering on being fired when the approval tap ran dry.
Deep down I knew I was operating inauthentically, constantly on guard, and hiding the real me. I felt angry, hurt, frightened, envious, and jealous.
But, old habits with the false promise of safety and security die hard...
So, I extinguished my fire to survive.
This brought some level of peace and security to my life. by avoiding confrontations, being agreeable and accommodating but, at a terrible cost to my integrity!
I was a great guy to be around but, there was no real depth to who I was because I constantly changed my views to fit in with others.
By my mid-forties, I realised my life lacked fun, direction and purpose - drastic changes were needed!
I tried self-help books and invested a few years and considerable money into self-development courses to find my true power, reveal my authentic self, and live aligned with my core values.
I did not want other men who had struggled with similar experiences to extinguish their fire to survive taking the same elongated route as I had. So I qualified as an executive coach and set up my coaching practice 9 years ago.
In addition to this, I attended mens groups to aid my healing, eventually facilitating a few for a couple of years to help others.
I realised that whilst the groups were beneficial to members it did not enable them to progress. A lot of them recognised their issues but remained in the same place.
I decided to create my own mens groups and with my coaching practice provide group coaching to enable members to share and develop to move forward.
I recently discovered Human Design and assimilated it into my life. It created a significant transformation which greatly impressed me. Its simplicity, conciseness and effectiveness in creating real change and enabling faster results with longevity amazed me so I have incorporated it into my coaching.
Human Design is a game changer because it quickens the process of re-energising your passion by revealing how your energy operates within you.
I have made it my mission to build a community of men to re-energise the passion in their lives and feel alive again.
Life is not a rehearsal and living a life without desire is like a candle without a flame.
Having so much potential left unlit in the wax is such a waste in terms of time and impact that your flame would have made you, others and the world.
Don't extinguish your flame to survive. Re-energise your passion to feel alive!